Does Size Actually Matter?

It's an exhausted topic that always seems to pop up anytime we start dating a new guy. It’s generally up there with “What does he do for a living?” or “How does he dress?” and “Are there any psycho girlfriends still in the picture?”

But why is it SUCH a big deal? Unless we’re talking about some unusual birth defect, generally you can you can find a way to make the little fella work. You just have to be crafty. After all ladies, nothing is going to make a boy who is on the smaller side of the spectrum feel even smaller then if you have a look of shock or horror or repressed laughter on your face when you first discover the issue at hand.

Remember, if you can find it… you can get around it. For example: step away from those boring old missionary positions (yawn) and try climb’n up on that cute lil’ thing. You as the receiver have a much better shot at making it to the land of glory, and…well… it gives him something to look at. And that’s just the tip of the iceberg. Head into a bookstore or a sex shop and pick up a book on different positions and have a blast working your way through all the new techniques.

Just stay away from joke books that may upset him like “Peter Piper With The Pickle Pecker”
Making this kind of effort will boost his ego knowing that you’re not bothered by the mini-pack and willing to work on it together.

If after all your hard efforts your boy is still feeling a little self-conscious then think of some naughty little phrases you can whisper in his ear next time you guys are gettin down. That is always a sure-fire way to have a man forget about his shortcomings.

Speaking of shortcomings, one of the things we brought up in this week's episode on this topic is who perpetuates this myth that guys have to be eight inches if they want to feel cocky about their size.

I say NO WAY! Eight inches can sometimes hurt. I’ll bet if I took a survey I would find that the majority of women prefer an average six inch’r.

So who perpetuates this myth? Is it women who keep it going through their relentless conversations with their girlfriends where we break down and analyze every detail that could be possibly analyzed or is it the men in the locker room? I mean what else do you have to look at when you are surrounded by naked dudes?

Eventually you're going to get curious and wonder what the guy next to you is packin'. I mean give me a break if you don't think women look at and compare breasts...oh yeah boys...it happens!

So lets try and break the mold here and accept that the size of a man's package really doesn't matter all that much. I mean, placing so much importance on something you can't fix really seems kind of high school at this point in our lives don't you think?

You might as well work with what you got and perfect your technique so that if you fall a little short you have serious game to back it up with. Trust me, your girl will be less likely to notice if you are confident with what you've got and can work around it to still make her toes curl. And if you fall on the other end of the spectrum with something that is too big, well I don't know what to tell you.

One man’s blessing is another woman’s curse.

Peace,
Jill at www.twentysomethingtv.com [2]