I believe love is to seek the highest good regardless of how demanding or sacrificial it may be. By this I mean people should learn to decipher love not by their feelings at that time or the environment but rather through the commitment you have towards that person that would make the rules of this world inapplicable where they are concerned. At the specific time when they need you the most you will lack an excuse to explain your not being there, to me that is the greatest measure of love.
Some people think that happiness is a feeling but to me its a direction that is why people choose to do what is right or wrong depending on the direction the mind is leading them.
So instead of seeking Love, Commit yourself to loving and instead of seeking happiness direct yourself towards it.

