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Not In My Daughter's Name

Marnie Frey

Marnie Frey


Marnie's name CAN be used to fight for more detox beds, more recovery beds, funding for long term counseling, making it illegal for men to buy the use of women's bodies and enforcing these laws. '
By Citizen Correspondent Trisha Baptie
Date Posted: 02/20/08
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Marnie Frey, who was murdered by Robert Pickton, left behind a family who is deeply concerned with how her legacy is being portrayed and used in the media. They have asked me to help them get a message out to the public. The message is to anyone who is trying to use their daughter's memory for purposes that they in no way agree with. They do not agree with the use of their daughter's name in the fight to legalize prostitution or to open a brothel. I do not feel I need to say more and will let the letter speak for itself.

To Anyone Using our Daughter's Legacy,

It has come to our attention that there is a group of people who wish to legalize prostitution and set up a brothel in Vancouver. As the parents of Marnie Frey, who was murdered by Robert "Willie" Pickton, we believe that both these ideas are very dangerous recommendations.

Our daughter was forced into prostitution because of the need to feed her addiction to drugs. To think of prostitution as a ‘job’ and treat it as such is ridiculous. I am disgusted to think that anyone would think that prostitution is a job. It is not.

It is violence against women.

Neither legalizing prostitution nor having a brothel would have prevented the murder of our daughter. The women of the Downtown Eastside need meaningful solutions to their addictions.

We tried on numerous occasions to have Marnie admitted to drug rehabilitation facilities, but found that to be very difficult because of the chronic lack of beds and funding for such places. When an addict reaches out for help, the resources should be available immediately. To think the best we can do for these women is giving them a safe place to sell their bodies is a joke. There is no such thing as a "clean safe place" to be abused in.

For a man to think he can buy a woman's body is insane, and should show us the attitudes that women have to fight against in society. Marnie did not choose prostitution; her addictions did, and any man who bought her body for their sexual pleasure should go to jail for exploiting her desperation.


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Re: Not In My Daughter's Name

By Hazel8500, February 23, 2008 at 08:52

I sure hope who ever is using Marnie's name without permission reads this and stops.

Personally I believe in brothels, but I am not convinced that brothels are the solution for survival sex workers. Women who are still selling sex to support their addictions and other socio-psychological needs, need a safe place to fight their demons as Mr and Mrs. Frey's letter illustrates - not a trick pad. Yes we desperately need beds in BC, rehab beds.

Thank you again Trisha for your excellent reporting.
Hazel.

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