Q&A With A Dominatrix

What did you want to be when you grew up?

Honestly, an orthopedic surgeon. My mother is an orthopedic nurse, so I grew up in the hospital and loved it. Also, I loved the fact that Orthopedic Surgery is so bloody. As much as it grosses me out, it intrigues me.

In your relationships, who generally wears the pants?

Me. I am organized and borderline OCD with things, so things need to go my way usually. Most relationships don't work because the men I tend to attract are the ones that want to run things.

Why are assertive and/or aggressive women sexy?

I think it's because they tend to have their sh*t together. They usually know what they want, with whom, when and where. There tends to be less B.S. and games.

It's a strength that men usually are in love with, as well as afraid of.

Why do some men pay to be degraded?

In my experience it seems to be that they have this underlying desire to NOT be in control for a moment. They tend to be men that have high roles in their jobs and/or lives and want to release that control to someone else. They pay for it because their significant others are judgmental of this desire they have or they are too scared to mention it to the people that only see them as a source of strength.

What are some of the more off the wall things you do in a day's work?

To me everything seems more normal than you may think, but the stuff that gets me the most are the men that enjoy smells, like sweaty feet or sweaty pits. I just sit there as they bury their nose in that body part. That's not off-the-wall, is it?