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The Anatomy Of Desire


...it’s not difficult to see how desire can easily become one of the symptoms of self obsession, the basis of an individualistic ‘me first’ culture and even a lifetime of joyless striving, struggling and stressing under the illusion that happiness is not possible until all the ‘objects of desire’ are acquired or achieved. '
By Citizen Correspondent Robin Roychaudhuri
Date Posted: 03/12/08
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Weekly Reflections: What is the anatomy of desire? It’s a great question and an invitation to explore the whole area of desire, what desire is and why we are so easily ruled by our desires.

Almost all spiritual paths (not just Taoism and Buddhism) describe desire as the trapdoor to the cravings and dependencies that keep the soul, the self, in bondage and enslaved to the object of desire. It is in this slavery, they say, that true freedom is lost. And if one is not inwardly free, spiritually free, then it is impossible to be happy which, in spiritual terms, means peaceful and contended. For most people this is challenging territory in which to find clarity not least because our global culture runs on and is dependent on ‘desire’. It is desire that drives the consumer to consume, it is desire that keeps the producers producing and therefore, according to almost every economists, politicians and business persons perception, it is desire that keeps the world going round.

It is the desire to achieve that gets the athlete up early in the morning, slogging miles a day to become fit enough to ‘win’. It seems to be desire that gets us through our education. It is desire that drives us towards career success, or business success, or any success, as we embody the modern mantra ‘you have to want it badly enough’

However it’s not difficult to see how desire can easily become one of the symptoms of self obsession, the basis of an individualistic ‘me first’ culture and even a lifetime of joyless striving, struggling and stressing under the illusion that happiness is not possible until all the ‘objects of desire’ are acquired or achieved.

By now you probably sense the inference that desire is not such a good thing!


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    Re: The Anatomy Of Desire

    By luyen, March 12, 2008 at 22:12

    Enjoyed reading your words - although i think it is too philosophically complex for most people to approach off the bat, because you're alternating between what is relative and what is absolute truth from the Buddhist point of view, and even an intellectual notion of the latter can lead to inadvertent conclusions to the extreme, desire is 100% bad or 100% good.

    Desire for freedom is obviously good, relatively speaking of course! Desire for a car can also be good, if it doesn't become an object of extreme attachment. I like the twist you put on it though, it's important to consider the "why" ...why do we do things? We do it to be happy...but often the opposite result occurs, and that's a good reason to stop and wonder why!

    Keep up the great writing!

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