Stuttering in Children

Helping a Child Control a Stutter

According to the Stuttering Foundation of America, nearly 3 million people in the U.S. are affected by stuttering with boys being 4 times more likely to stutter than girls. It is not uncommon for very young children to stutter slightly, but if the stuttering persists past the age of 3 it may become a lifelong speech disorder.

This is dependent upon several risk factors. Heredity is a key factor in stuttering. If a family member stutters then it is more likely the child's stutter will develop into a speech disorder. A child who has another form of speech disorder may also develop a stutter.

Neurological disorders may also be the cause for the stutter. While a permanent stutter cannot be cured, there are ways for children to learn to control their stuttering. Here are ways to help a child learn to control stuttering.

Have the Stuttering Child Diagnosed

If a child is still stuttering beyond the age of 3 then it is recommended to have him see a speech-language pathologist. This way the parents will know if the stutter is a temporary speech problem or a permanent speech disorder.

If it is found that the stuttering is a permanent speech disorder, the child can begin working with a certified speech therapist to learn ways to control his stuttering. The speech therapist will also explain ways that parents can help their child at home to control his stuttering.

Speech Therapy Results for Stuttering take Time

A speech therapist can help teach a child ways to control her stuttering, but don't expect the stutter to disappear altogether. In the article Stuttering Therapy for Children at the Stuttering Foundation of America's website, they state that the goals for speech therapy are to:

• Reduce the occurrence of stuttering.
• Lessen the tension when stuttering occurs.
• Learn more about stuttering and using communication skills that will help to control the stutter.

A child needs to build up their confidence in speaking as well as learn an easier, even slower way to talk to avoid stuttering. Parents can work along with the speech therapist to help their child develop these traits

Work with the Child at Home

Parents spend the most time with their child so it is important to apply what their child is learning from the speech therapist at home. Here are simple techniques parents can use to help the child work on decreasing his stutter.

1. Speak in a relaxed way to the child so he will be relaxed also.

2. Refrain from finishing the child's sentences or hurrying him along as he speaks.

3. Set aside time each day to give undivided attention to the child when she is speaking. Having a casual conversation is less stressful and helps the child feel comfortable speaking.

4. Don't barrage the child with questions. Too many questions at once can make the child feel anxious and bring on the stutter.

Accept the Child for Who He Is

Acceptance plays a key role in helping a child feel relaxed and comfortable with who he is. Whether or not the stuttering continues, the child needs to feel his parents love him no matter how he speaks.

Remember, the child's speech disorder should not define who he is; it is only a small part of his total personality and abilities. Encourage the child in activities he enjoys and help him to build his confidence from his successes.