It was 1970 and I was only 14 years old when I found out that parties are not always synonymous with "good times" - at least not for Maasai girls.
I was coming home from school one evening when I saw a group of people engaging in a huge feast that was taking place in my home village, Enaibor-Ajijik, Narok. It wasn't surprising for me to witness this kind of massive celebration because in the Maasai culture, whenever one family celebrates something, the whole village is invited to join the party.
When my elder sister and I walked into the village, the drunken crowd was at fever pitch. I asked my mother what was happening and why they were holding the party. She told me that it was for me and my sister because we were about to be initiated into adulthood.
"You are going to be women," she said excited.
I did not know what she meant by that, so I asked.
I just couldn't believe what I was hearing. I was both horrified and outraged. She was telling us that we would undergo "Emuratare," the ceremony that initiates young Maasai girls into adulthood through ritual circumcision and then into early, arranged marriages,.
It wasn't that I hadn't heard about this practice before. Maasai girls are gradually prepared to face the knife from a very young age. We are encouraged to fight with sticks until blood oozes from the opponent's body without wincing in pain or running away. This is the mark of bravery, heroism and a readiness to face the cut.




Comments
What a fascinating and
By Richard Day Gore, January 16, 2007 at 11:24What a fascinating and chilling story. It is indeed horrendous to realize that there are still places where a woman's body is not considered inviolate. How far can humanity rise as long as so many people are considered objects?
Regards to all,
Richard Day Gore
Thank you Denis for sharing
By Hazel8500, January 12, 2007 at 10:15Thank you Denis for sharing Agnes Pareyio's story.
She is an amazing example of what one person can accomplish just by saying "No, I won't" in unjust situations. I will certainly be keeping an eye out for developing stories about tribal circumcisions and Agnes Pareyio's mission.
Again thank you for such a powerful story.
Hazel.
This is such a powerful
By Kathleen, August 7, 2006 at 16:57This is such a powerful story.
Kathleen
This is an incredibly moving
By vanessa.vdk, August 4, 2006 at 00:04This is an incredibly moving story. How sad that in some countries women are still regarded as nothing more than objects to be abused, mutilated and kept oppressed. Why are we allowing this practice to continue unpunished? 5* rating.
A fantastic story.. it
By Arpita Sutradhar, August 3, 2006 at 05:18A fantastic story.. it brings out the horror of female circumcision. This practice is very much prevalent in the Arab countries as well. As rightly said, this barbaric practice must stop.